It’s the only way too. Everything God created He called it good, lovely, a masterpiece, a work of art. When we see others as God created them, and walk up besides them and can become friends, then the fragrance of earth ascends to the heaven, and blessing are out poured for, by Him you are adored. His Lovely Son desires to be your view-master, looking through the lenses that purified all men, that have given their hearts to him.
Eph. 2:13
13 But now in Christ Jesus ye who sometimes were far off are made nigh by the blood of Christ. 14 For he is our peace, who hath made both one, and hath broken down the middle wall of partition between us; 15 Having abolished in his flesh the enmity, even the law of commandments contained in ordinances; for to make in himself of twain one new man, so making peace; 16 And that he might reconcile both unto God in one body by the cross, having slain the enmity thereby: 17And came and preached peace to you which were afar off, and to them that were nigh. 18For through him we both have access by one Spirit unto the Father.